The continuing story about...my (lack of) hair.

Okay, I was at the doctor's yesterday. I asked her to write me a statement for my health insurance because I have AGA (AndroGenetic Alopecea) and I told her a little about my family. She asked if I had ever been to a dermatologist for this and I asked: 'Why? Can a dermatologist make hair come back that is gone?' She was like:'Hmmm, you have a point there...' So she wrote me a declaration and the next stage in my quest can begin...

I got a lot of really nice comments on this blog and on Facebook. And also comments like: you knew that already, right...we knew! I guess I knew, deep inside, but I just buried my head in the sand and didn't want to know it, after all, a woman and getting bald... Not the most uplifting story :p 

So the next step: an appointment with a specialized hairsalon here in town. Luckily I have a friend here that used to wear wigs because of chemotherapy and she offered to come with me and make pictures of me with the wigs I'll be fitting. Because at that salon they do an intake where they explain stuff and fit some wigs and I am sure my friend can ask the questions needed, I am still a wig-n00bie ;) I am so happy she'll be coming with me (and drag me inside by my ears if needed, haha!).

Well, ever since I admitted to myself I need a wig, I decided to treat it as just another fun fashion accessory. And I'd like to own different wigs in different styles and colors. Nobody that really knows me is gonna believe that luscious hair came out of my own head and people that don't know me...well they are just gonna see the blonde or brunette or redhead that I happen to be that day :p 

So yeah, I'll be going for fun and foxy ;) My first wig is gonna be paid for by the health insurance and the second one by...Dan! Of course he totally supports me, even said I look lovely the way I am (he can be such a liar at times but hey, he knows how to make me feel good!) and he promised me a second wig. And I am gonna share the fitting pictures with him so he can pick it out himself...

Really, thanks to all the nice reactions I have gotten, I feel a lot better now. And I am starting to see the whole wig thing as an exciting adventure! I hope to have 3 or 4 wigs in a while so I can wear my 'hair' according to how I am feeling or according to what is appropriate for the occasion. No more super-fake buns for me :p 

So, all of you have a great day and remember: 'as long as your hair looks okay' (in Dutch: als je haar maar goed zit) ;) 

Hugz, Anna

Confession time.

I have a confession to make...Have to say, I am really ashamed but well, sh*t happens I guess and it's not something I can do anything about or that's gonna be ok if I wait long enough.

I am going bald. And I don't mean my hair is just getting a little bit thinner. It is classic male pattern baldness also known as Alopecea Androgenetica. And yes, last time I checked I still had the girl parts but apparently it happens to some women too.

People that have known me for a long time still can remember me with bangs. I ALWAYS had bangs because my forehead was so high. Several years ago I just combed my hair to the back because my hairline started creeping up so bangs were no longer a possibility. And then I always had to wear my hair in a ponytail or a bun and now I just kind of create a fake bun...

But my hair is really getting...messy now. On top of my head I have still a few long hairs(about 10-15 :p ) and some shorter ones, you can easily see the skin through it. And my ponytail is of a really pathetic size now, a bit thicker than a pencil.

 So, ehm...yes. I may have to resort to a wig. And well, I could have expected it... My father wasn't very blessed in the hair department - he was almost bald when I was born- my mom wore a wig and my aunt still does. So it's definitely hereditary. Something to do with menopause and hormones and stuff.

I have been thinking about this for, well, years already really. And now that I have more time again because I don't work anymore...I have been looking up things on the internet. Alopecea Androgenetica... I wanted to share this with all of you first, so you can ask me if I have been to the doctor already ( I have to do that in order to get compensation from my health care insurance for that blasted wig.).

Decided I will call for an appointment for next week. You know I am already getting nervous just thinking about that? And then I still have to call and explain to the assistant why I want an appointment etc. etc. Goosebumps!

I have no idea how much time this all will take but next time you see me and my 'hair' looks great...just try to forget, ok? :p 

Thanks for letting me ramble on!

Hugz, Anna

Mama's got a brand new coat :p

Yeah, well...I still had a little bit of money left before I am really starting to get dirt poor. €70 to be exact. And I have been looking for a decent summer coat for quite a while, because I only have this short black jacket. So I was looking online for a nice coat, preferably a trench coat, in one of my favorite stores. And I found one at H&M. I just love that shop, fashionable clothing and affordable prices and every now and then a special surprise just for me ;) Like that lovely wool winter coat just in my size for only €10...That is hanging in Dan's walk-in closet in Chicago and it was perfect for church ;) Oh and did I already say I just love their plus size department?

So yesterday I jumped on my trusty scooter on my way to H&M. Gosh I love that store and I could spend loads and loads of money there, if I had loads and loads of money, haha. I went to the plus size section, they used to call that Big is Beautiful, don't know why they dropped that name. And I started looking through the racks of new arrivals. There were some 'biker' jackets and that striped tunic I love but no trench coat.

I was getting slightly bummed. Now I thought I found a perfect coat and they don't have it? Grrrr, my luck :( Oh well. There still was the sales rack so I decided to browse through that...sure I'd find something nice to comfort myself. And guess what? Yes indeed, the famous trench coat! And not only that, but in my size ànd 50% off!!!

So of course I janked that from the rack! That coat was MINE...And since I still had €35 to spare now I also took the grey and black striped tunic I have been admiring for quite some time ;) Happy me! Two items for the price of one and €10 to spare. I told the cashier I saw the same coat the day before on internet for €69,95 and she told me it got priced off just that day. So, looks like my luck is slowly turning?

Well, the weather doesn't permit me to put on my new coat yet but I am wearing the tunic, with a grey legging. (Only because my black ones are in the laundry basket and well, you know about my washing machine...been without one for over a month now :p ). But it looks good! 

Now all I have to do this week is get me a new lottery ticket, because I won my money back and who knows, with my new found luck I might even win a big prize :D 

I wish all of you lots of luck in whatever you're doing!

Hugz, Anna

Finally some news...

Hey there dear friends! It's been a while since I wrote a blog and I am so ashamed...but I have had a LOT to deal with again in the past few months. I'll try to give you some updates:

• My house. I have my wardrobe, I have internet (after sitting in the library twice a week for weeks on end :p ) and the landlord had to pay for the damages he has done. I am still living in a refurbished garage and it's still not my ideal but...I have sort of learned to live with it!
• I have been to Chicago again!!! 2 weeks with my darling, in November/December. I got to celebrate Thanksgiving and his birthday (that was the same day this year). Dan turned 46. I mean: 46!!!! He is quite a bit younger than he made me believe LOL. But he is still the same (sweet) person so I don't care ;) He was scared I wouldn't like him anymore if he told me his real age since I am 5 years older than that.
• We have set a time frame for me to emigrate to Chicago. 1-2 years max. Again: not ideal but it is something I can oversee and deal with.The whole 'process' is gonna take about 8 months anyway so...
• 3 days after I came back from vacation my supervisor at work asked me to come with her. And she told me my contract was NOT going to be renewed. Well I was like WTF! Just before Christmas my job was done. Such perfect timing. The first time they pulled one like that on me (in August) I still had to work 5 days, which I did and totally kicked ass. This time it was 10 days. And I swear: I went to work thinking I was gonna repeat that. But I couldn't. I simply couldn't. I felt literally physically ill.I was numb. And I called in sick for the remainder of time...
• I am filling out forms like crazy. Quittance for the City Council Tax, Water Tax. Forms to get on dole. And even forms to ask for special assistance because my washing machine broke and I don't have the money to get me a new one. This is all new to me. I even filled out the forms for income taxes and I should get €120,- back this year ;) But I mean, A4 envelopes full of bank statements (of 4 pages each) pay specifications, copies of my ID and stuff, at least 20 pages per envelope! And that times 4! Guess that was something I still had to learn ;) 

So, I am keeping quite busy ;) I even made 2 new friends here, ex co-workers. I got to really know them after I was fired. And they are sweethearts, they make me feel less lonely here in Alkmaar!

And my long awaited grandson is born on March 30. His name is Xavi and he's a cutie, just like his sister Layla!

I am still hoping to find a job soon again. That I don't have to wait and wait and apply for jobs and get rejected like the last time. I am not one for hand outs and I really want to work!

Well, guess this is it for now. I promise I will write soon again (I promise that a LOT don't I?)

You all just have a great day and a wonderful life!

Hugs, Anna